venerdì 5 aprile 2013

Friendship, psychological necessity

Friendship remained for long a relationship that just happens and can not be explained, but new studies argue that friendship is among other psychological necessity.
 
For a long time, friendship is neglected by science and social relations. When sociologists and social groups to analyze the relationship began, they gave them an intimate understanding and love. For this reason, friendship is one of the least studied relationships and analyzed. This fact is slowly changing and more researchers are interested to society. Some of the most frequently asked questions in the study are: "What characters people become friends?", "Friendship varies with age?", "Is friendship among boys than among girls it?" These are important questions, which slowly break down the mystery of friendship, making us realize that friendship is not just something that is born without reason, but it is a relationship which depend heavily on other circumstances. In a study of friendship, the researchers decided to answer the question of what serves friendship. Many of us think that friends, at least the ones they make us have more self confidence and raise us. The researchers decided to confirm this by taking a certain group of individuals and placing them in front of a large hill. The group was exposed once and once only at each person was his best. It was found that when asked to estimate how many feet can you needed to reach the top of the hill, people who were only given a figure larger than persons who had close friends who appreciated the distance small. In another variant, the participants were asked to stand alone in front of the hill. Some were asked to bring to mind their friends better, some others not. The researchers noted that persons brought to mind their friends thought it was a shorter distance, while those who had not thought about their friends, the great appreciated. Having an important friend, makes us think positively about yourself, because what we estimate to our friends, helps us meet our shortcomings.
 
In some studies, participants gave a written test in which some thought to their social relations good, some of those social relationships that were not going well, while others thought the normal social relations. Then they all said that their test results were not very good. It turned out that people thought of their good friends, were more open to improve deficiencies, which were made to take result is not good. Another question that researchers prefer to do about friendship, is what happens to people who take more and more friends? A group of psychologists think that part of the answer may be that people with many friends, often moving out of town or school when children are. It is possible that children who during their childhood friends were busy, but they were hard to keep in touch, occupying more friends in the city where they go. Consequently these children going to take more and more friends, thus forgetting the exact number of their friends. One study analyzed the first year students of a school and their social relations. It was found that students who had moved repeatedly during their childhood, had more friends on social networks or in reality, than students who had been all the time in the same school. Interesting was the fact that, after two months of the school year, the number of friends on "Facebook" of those who had moved frequently during childhood, was greater than that of persons who had become a peaceful and stable. With these simple but meaningful studies, science takes on a new chapter on studies on friendship and social relations.
 
Expression about friendship
 
A friend is someone who really knows, who understands what you have been, accepts what you're doing and that allows to grow again. U. Shakespeare
 
Would much prefer to walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light. - H. Keller
 
Friendship is something that can not explain in words, but if you do not know the deep meaning in itself, then you have not lived. Muhammad Ali
 
All are simple to support a friend who suffers, but a great man kind, to support the success of a friend. O. Uajd
 
Hell is not suffering loved anyone. F. Dostoevsky.
 
A good friend is a gift that we owe to ourselves. M. Robertson
 
According to psychologists, a good friend is psychological secret desire to fill gaps
 
The researchers found that those accompanied by their friends perceived lesser distance of an object, rather than just those
 
Persons who have been forced to change their residence during childhood, have simpler busy friends.

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